What should you keep in mind while raising a 3 year old?

By Dr. Sandhya Pentareddy

These are some important things you should keep in mind while raising a 3-year-old child:

  1. Is the environment safe for your child to play and learn? This includes the people she interacts and places she visits.
  2. Are you encouraging physical activity and playtime to develop gross and fine motor skills?
  3. Are you providing enough exposure and opportunity to your child to learn in the form of a stimulating environment, imaginative play and creative activities? Are you reading books to your child to encourage a love of reading and learning? Are you ensuring the content including story books are appropriate to her age? Provide positive reinforcement and praise the child for their efforts and achievements.
  4. Does your child have enough opportunity to socialize with other children and adults, for positive social interactions?
  5. Have you checked her development against the expected ‘Development and Milestones’ for her age? Remember that would just be a guideline and every child is different. But the milestones help in your understanding of your child’s growth and you may a consult a specialist if you have any concerns.
  6. Is your child trained in Hygiene and Self-care: such as washing hands, brushing teeth, and starting to dress independently?
  7. Is her diet a healthy and balanced one with plenty of fruits, vegetables, protein and whole grains? Read more: Nutrition and Meals
  8. Are you promoting good sleeping habits? Establish a consistent routine for sleeping and waking up?
  9. Are you avoiding screen time or at least limiting it and ensuring the content is age-appropriate?
  10. Have you selected a Pre-School for her?
  11. Is she potty trained?
  12. Have you vaccinated her according to the guidelines of her primary health care provider?

The above checklist is a general guideline. Please keep in mind that every child is unique. You may add to the above, depending upon your child’s needs and interests.

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Teaching Kids About Safety: Tips for Protecting Your 3-6 Year Olds

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By Siyona Varghese 

As a parent or caregiver, one of your primary responsibilities is to ensure the safety of your child. This includes teaching her about safety measures and precautions that she can take to protect herself in different situations. Children aged 3-6 years old are at an age where they are starting to explore and become more independent, making it important to start educating them about safety.

Here are some tips on teaching kids about safety and how you can protect your 3-6-year-olds:

Teach them about stranger danger

Stranger danger is a concept that every child needs to learn at a young age. Explain to your child that she should never talk to strangers or go anywhere with someone she does not know. Let her know that if she is ever approached by a stranger, she should immediately tell an adult she trust. Encourage her to use the phrase “no, go, yell, tell” if they feel unsafe around a stranger.

Establish clear rules and boundaries

Children need rules and boundaries to help them understand what they can and cannot do. Establishing clear rules and boundaries can help prevent accidents and ensure your child’s safety. Make sure your child understands that she is not allowed to leave the house without your permission, play with dangerous objects or run in areas where there are vehicles or traffic.

Teach them about basic first aid

Teaching your child about basic first aid can help her understand how to respond in an emergency. Teach her how to call for help, how to apply a bandage and how to wash and clean a wound. These basic skills can be helpful in situations where an adult is not present.

Use role-playing and games to teach safety

Using role-playing and games can make learning about safety more fun and engaging for young children. Play games that involve identifying safe and unsafe situations or use role-playing to teach your child how to respond in different situations, such as what to do if she gets lost or how to safely cross the street.

Teach them about water safety

Water safety is essential for children who enjoy swimming or playing in the water. Teach your child how to swim and never leave her unattended around water, whether it is a pool, lake or bathtub. Make sure she understands the dangers of diving and the importance of wearing a life jacket when boating.

Encourage them to speak up

Encouraging your child to speak up if she feel unsafe or uncomfortable can help prevent accidents and protect her safety. Teach her that she can say “no” if they do not want to do something or if she feels uncomfortable. Let her know that she should always tell an adult if she is being bullied or if someone is hurting her.

Practice fire safety

Teaching your child about fire safety is crucial for her protection. Make sure your child understands the dangers of fire and how to prevent it, such as not playing with matches or lighters. Teach her how to stop, drop and roll if her clothes catch on fire and make sure she knows how to escape a burning building.

In conclusion, teaching kids about safety is crucial to protecting your 3-6 year olds. By establishing clear rules and boundaries, teaching them about stranger danger, basic first aid, water safety and fire safety and encouraging them to speak up, you can help your child stay safe in different situations. Use role-playing and games to make learning about safety more fun and engaging for your child. With these tips, you can help your child develop a strong foundation of safety knowledge that they can carry with them throughout their life.

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Protecting Your Child: Ensuring a Safe Environment for Play and Learning

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By Siyona Varghese

As a parent, one of the most important things you can do is to ensure that your child is safe and healthy. This includes creating a safe environment for your child to play and learn in. Unfortunately, there are many potential hazards that can threaten your child’s safety, including toxic chemicals, dangerous playground equipment and even strangers.

In this article, we will discuss some steps that parents can take to protect their children and ensure that their environments are safe.

The first step in protecting your child is to be aware of the potential hazards in her environment. This includes understanding the risks associated with the people and places that your child interacts with. For example, if your child attends daycare or school, it is important to research the facility and ensure that it meets safety standards. You should also talk to your child’s teachers and caregivers to understand their policies and procedures for keeping children safe.

Another potential hazard that parents need to be aware of is toxic chemicals. Many household products contain dangerous chemicals that can be harmful to children. This includes cleaning products, pesticides and even some types of toys. Parents should read labels carefully and avoid products that contain harmful chemicals whenever possible. Additionally, parents should store these products out of the reach of children and ensure that they are properly disposed of when they are no longer needed.

In addition to toxic chemicals, parents should also be aware of the potential hazards associated with playground equipment. Many playgrounds are poorly maintained and can pose a serious risk to children. This includes equipment that is broken or worn, as well as equipment that is not properly anchored. Parents should inspect playgrounds carefully before allowing their children to play on them and report any hazards to the appropriate authorities.

Another important step in protecting your child is to teach her about personal safety. This includes talking to your child about the dangers of strangers and teaching them to never accept gifts or rides from people they do not know. Additionally, parents should teach their children to be aware of their surroundings and to seek help if they feel threatened or unsafe.

While there are many potential hazards that can threaten your child’s safety, there are also many steps that parents can take to protect their children. One of the most important steps is to be proactive and to take action to address potential hazards before they become a problem. This includes researching the people and places that your child interacts with, reading labels on household products and inspecting playgrounds and other environments for potential hazards.

Another important step is to talk to your child about personal safety and to teach them to be aware of her surroundings. This includes teaching them to never accept gifts or rides from strangers, to always stay in well-lit areas and to seek help if she feels threatened or unsafe.

Ultimately, the most important thing that parents can do to protect their children is to be present and involved in their lives. This includes spending time with your child, listening to their concerns and providing a safe and nurturing environment for them to grow and learn. By taking these steps, parents can help ensure that their children are safe and healthy and that they have the tools and skills they need to navigate the world safely.

In conclusion, protecting your child and ensuring a safe environment for play and learning is one of the most important responsibilities that parents have. This includes being aware of potential hazards and taking action to address them, teaching children about personal safety and being present and involved in their lives. By working together, parents, caregivers and communities can create a safe and healthy environment for children to grow and thrive in.

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How to Help Your Child Develop Strong Social Skills

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By Siyona Varghese

As a parent, you want to see your child thrive in all areas of their life, including socially. Strong social skills are crucial for your child’s development and future success, as they help him form positive relationships and communicate effectively with others. But how can you help your child develop these skills? The answer lies in play and interaction with others.

In this article, we’ll explore the ways in which you can support your child’s social development through these activities.

Encourage Playdates

Playdates are an excellent way for children to socialize and develop their social skills. They provide a safe and fun environment for children to interact with their peers, learn social cues and practice communication skills. As a parent, you can encourage playdates by reaching out to other parents in your community or through your child’s school. You can also organize playdates at your home or a nearby park.

When setting up playdates, it’s important to keep in mind your child’s personality and interests. You want to make sure he is comfortable and engaged in the activities. If your child is shy or introverted, it may be helpful to start with smaller playdates or one-on-one interactions. As your child becomes more comfortable, you can gradually introduce larger groups.

Role Play

Role-playing is a fun and interactive way to help your child develop his social skills. It involves acting out different scenarios with your child, such as ordering food at a restaurant or asking for help at a store. Through role-playing, your child can practice their communication skills, learn how to navigate social situations and develop empathy for others.

To start, you can choose a scenario and act it out with your child. You can switch roles and encourage your child to come up with his own scenarios as well. You can also use toys or props to make the role-playing more engaging.

Play Board Games

Board games are a great way to help your child develop his social skills, as they require turn-taking, following rules and communicating with others. By playing board games with your child, you can teach him how to be a good sport, how to handle winning and losing and how to work with others towards a common goal.

When choosing board games, look for ones that are age-appropriate and have simple rules. You can also involve your child in the selection process to make it more engaging. Some good options for younger children include Snakes and Ladders, Ludo and so on, while older children may enjoy games like Monopoly or Chess.

Play Outdoor Games

Outdoor games are a great way to expend the energy, stay fit and enjoy socializing with other kids. They are a great way to inculcate good habits to stay fit into their adult life.

Attend Community Events

Attending community events, such as festivals, fairs and concerts, is a great way to expose your child to new people and experiences. It provides an opportunity for your child to practice his social skills in a fun and exciting environment.

When attending community events, be sure to involve your child in the planning process. You can research events in your area together and let your child choose which ones they want to attend. You can also encourage your child to interact with others at the event, whether it’s by playing games, trying new foods or participating in activities.

Volunteer Together

Volunteering is a rewarding way to give back to your community while also helping your child develop his social skills. By volunteering together, your child can learn how to work with others towards a common goal, develop empathy for others and practice communication skills.

There are many volunteer opportunities available for children, such as  participating in a beach cleanup or visiting a nursing home. You can also involve your child in the selection process and let them choose which causes he want to support.

In conclusion, helping your child develop strong social skills through play and interaction with others is crucial for their development and future success.

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Hygiene and Self-Care for Toddlers: Essential Tips Every Parent Should Know

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By Siyona Varghese

As a parent, ensuring the hygiene and self-care of your toddler is one of your top priorities. It not only promotes physical health but also plays a crucial role in their overall development. Toddlers are at a stage where they are exploring everything around them and as a result, their immune systems are not fully developed. Therefore, it’s crucial to follow some essential tips to ensure your toddler is healthy and happy.

Diapers: The sooner you stop using diapers, the better it is. You may opt for cloth re-usable diapers which are not super-absorbent so that wetness can be felt leading to the immediate removal of the diaper. Leaving on any kind of diaper on a child too long would result in infections including UTIs (Urinary Tract Infections).
Bathing: Bathing your toddler every day is essential to maintain their hygiene. It helps to remove any dirt, sweat or bacteria that may have accumulated on their skin during the day. Bathing also helps to prevent skin infections, rashes and irritation. Ensure that the water temperature is not too hot or too cold and use a mild soap or body wash specifically designed for children. If your child has sensitive skin, you may skip the soap on alternate days.

Oral Hygiene: Oral hygiene is essential for your toddler’s overall health. Encourage your child to brush her teeth twice a day, preferably in the morning and at night before going to bed. Use a soft-bristled toothbrush and a small quantity of fluoride toothpaste, as it helps to prevent cavities and tooth decay. Do not use too much paste. Grain-size may just be sufficient. Avoid sugary foods and drinks as they can cause tooth decay. Avoid sugary toothpastes also.

Hand Washing: Teach your toddler to wash their hands before and after meals, after using the bathroom and after playing outside, with mild soap. Handwashing helps to prevent the spread of germs and bacteria. Use warm water and soap and make sure your child washes her hands thoroughly, including the backs of her hands, between her fingers and under her nails.

Nail Care: Keep your toddler’s nails short and clean to prevent the accumulation of dirt and bacteria. Long nails can also lead to scratches and cuts, which can easily become infected. Use a baby nail clipper or scissors, and ensure that you trim her nails straight across to prevent ingrown nails.

Skin Care: Toddlers have delicate skin, which is more susceptible to irritation and rashes. Use a mild, fragrance-free soap and lotion to keep their skin clean and moisturized. If your child has eczema or other skin conditions, consult a pediatrician for appropriate treatment.

Hair Care: Wash your toddler’s hair with a gentle shampoo designed for toddlers. Use a soft brush or comb to detangle her hair and avoid using hair accessories that are too tight or can cause scalp irritation.

Clothing and Laundry: Wash your toddler’s clothes, bedding and towels frequently to prevent the accumulation of bacteria, dust mites and other allergens. Use a mild, fragrance-free laundry detergent and avoid using fabric softeners or dryer sheets as they can irritate your child’s skin. Dress your toddler in loose-fitting, comfortable clothes made from breathable fabrics such as cotton.

In conclusion, following these essential hygiene and self-care tips can help to ensure that your toddler stays healthy and happy. It’s essential to be consistent and patient when teaching your child about hygiene and self-care. Encourage them to be independent, but supervise and assist them when necessary. By following these tips, you can help your toddler develop good hygiene habits that will benefit them throughout their lives.

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How to Incorporate More Fruits and Vegetables into Your Child’s Diet

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By Siyona Varghese

Incorporating fruits and vegetables into your child’s diet is important for her overall health and well-being. However, it can be challenging to get her to eat the recommended daily servings of fruits and vegetables.

Research has shown that consuming a diet rich in fruits and vegetables can have numerous health benefits, including reducing the risk of chronic diseases, improving digestive health and boosting the immune system. However, getting children to eat more fruits and vegetables can be a challenging task, especially for picky eaters. In this article, we will discuss some effective strategies to help you incorporate more fruits and vegetables into your child’s diet.

Set a Good Example

Children learn by observing and imitating their parents’ behavior. Therefore, it is essential to set a good example and consume a variety of fruits and vegetables yourself. Let your children see you eat fruits and vegetables as a snack, in salads or as part of your meals. You can also involve them in meal planning and preparation, allowing them to select the fruits and vegetables they want to eat.

Introduce Fruits and Vegetables Early

Introducing fruits and vegetables early can help children develop a taste for them. Offer your child a variety of fruits and vegetables from an early age and continue to expose her to new ones as she grow. This will help her develop a taste for a variety of fruits and vegetables, making it easier to incorporate them into her diet later on.

Make it Fun

Making fruits and vegetables fun can encourage children to eat more of them. You can do this by cutting them into fun shapes or using them to make fun designs on their plates. You can also encourage them to eat more fruits and vegetables by giving them a reward for trying new ones or making a game out of it.

Offer a Variety of Fruits and Vegetables

Offering a variety of fruits and vegetables can help ensure that your child gets a range of nutrients. Try to offer fruits and vegetables in different colors, as this indicates different nutrients. For example, green vegetables are rich in vitamin K, while orange and yellow fruits and vegetables are rich in vitamin A.

Mix Fruits and Vegetables into Other Foods

Mixing fruits and vegetables into other foods is a great way to increase your child’s intake of fruits and vegetables. You can add fruits to breakfast cereals or mix them into yogurt. You can also add vegetables to pasta sauces or soups.

Make Healthy Smoothies and Juices

Smoothies and juices are a great way to get your child to consume more fruits and vegetables. You can make delicious smoothies by blending together fruits, vegetables and yogurt or milk. You can also make fresh juices by juicing fruits and vegetables and serving them as a refreshing drink.

Get Creative with Snacks

Snacks are a great opportunity to sneak in some fruits and vegetables. Instead of offering your child chips or candy, try offering her carrot sticks, apple slices or other fruits and vegetables. You can also offer dips such as hummus or peanut butter to make the snack more appealing.

Serve Fruits and Vegetables First

Serving fruits and vegetables first can help ensure that your child eats them before filling up on other foods. Offer them a small serving of fruits or vegetables before serving the main course, ensuring that she get her daily intake of essential vitamins and minerals.

Limit Unhealthy Foods

Limiting unhealthy foods can encourage your child to eat more fruits and vegetables. Reduce the intake of sugary drinks, candy and processed foods and replace them with healthier options such as fruits and vegetables.

Don’t Force it

Finally, it is important not to force your child to eat fruits and vegetables. This can create a negative association with these foods and make it even harder to incorporate them into their diet. Instead, be patient.

Lastly, it’s critical to set an example for others by modelling good eating behaviours and by fostering a supportive environment during mealtimes. By incorporating fruits and vegetables into your family’s diet on a daily basis, you are trying to prepare your child for a life of health and nutrition and better well being.

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The Ultimate Guide for Developing Patience as a Parent

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By Dr. Dhanalakshmi N.

Ph.D. (N), PG Psychological Counselling, M.Sc. Psychology

Introduction

Parenting is an art. Every parent loves their children and yet, we all had experienced losing our temper sometimes. It is important to practice patience daily while caring for our children because children imitate by observing us. Practicing patience will benefit our health, family and other people around us.

The following are some strategies for parents to practice patience while caring for their children:

  1. Identify triggers: Identify the factors causing you to lose your patience. Finding the cause will help you to prevent the triggers or solve the problem.
  2. Self-care: Caring for children and managing their daily activities may be stressful at times. It is important for the parents to care for them with a nutritious diet, adequate sleep, exercise, yoga, meditation and relaxation techniques that will promote their physical and mental well-being and also helps to manage their emotions appropriately. Set a time for yourself.
  3. Practice patience: Whenever you feel stressed and frustrated, consciously calm down and think twice before you answer or speak to your child. Whenever you are angry, practice counting from one to ten before you answer your child. Avoid raising your voice, hitting, shouting or screaming etc.
  4. Practice breathing: Sit in a comfortable place, close your eyes, begin with a few normal breaths and followed by deep breaths, breathing deeply through the nose and breathing out through the mouth. Focus on breaths while practicing. Practice 10 to 20 minutes daily. While breathing relax your muscles and body.
  5. Practice mindfulness techniques: Live in the present moment. Living in the past makes you depressed and living in the future will lead to anxiousness. Live in the present moment by mindful eating, mindful bathing, mindful talking, mindful breathing, mindful working etc., being aware of every activity will promote satisfaction and balance your emotions. For example, feel the color, texture and taste of the food while eating than eating food by watching TV or phone.
  6. Practice Gratitude Journal: Set a regular time to record three to five things for which you feel grateful. Write down an inspiring person, good experiences, happy moments, and blessings etc., Daily practice of a gratitude journal promotes a good mood, positive emotions, satisfaction with life and develops patience.
  7. Practice listening skills: Listen to your child before you respond or react to your child’s behaviour. Ask your child to explain her behaviour or the reason for her behaviour, this will help the parents to understand the child from her perspective.
  8. Practice kindness: Practice kindness. One who is kind to self will be kind to others. Practicing kindness helps you to develop patience. Being kind to self and others reduces the secretion of stress hormone(cortisol) and promotes self-confidence and compassion.
  9. Assess the child’s needs: Assess the child’s needs frequently and meeting the needs will prevent stress and frustration for the child and also for the parents. Making a schedule from waking to bedtime will prevent confusion and minimizes stress.
  10. Work-life balance: Plan for a fun day. Spend time together with your child, relax and enjoy playing some fun games, sharing some stories, doing art and craft work, taking a short walk or planning for a picnic etc., setting time for having fun daily promotes happy hormones and balances your emotions. Daily we have the opportunity to practice patience

Conclusion

Patience is important in our daily life. Practicing the above strategies will help as the key factor to developing patience at home, office and while waiting at a traffic signal etc., Daily practice will help parents to develop patience.

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The Role of Parents in Supporting the Emotional Development of 3-Year-Olds and Older kids

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By Siyona Varghese

As a parent, you play a vital role in supporting your child’s emotional development, especially during their early years. Emotional development is the process by which children learn to express and manage their emotions effectively. It’s a critical part of their growth that lays the foundation for their social and cognitive development.

Three-year olds are at a crucial stage in their emotional development, where they begin to understand and express their feelings in more complex ways. They become more aware of their emotions and those of others around them, which makes it an ideal time for parents to focus on supporting their child’s emotional development.

Here are some ways parents can help their 3-6 year-olds develop emotionally:

Create a safe and secure environment: A child’s emotional development is directly influenced by their environment. As a parent, it’s essential to create a safe and secure environment where your child feels loved and valued. This means creating a home that is free from conflict and providing your child with a sense of stability and consistency. For instance, try not to have conflicts, fights and emotionally charged arguments with other adults in front of your child. Ensure your child understands that you love her and that she can depend upon you.

Encourage expression of emotions: It’s important to encourage your child to express their emotions openly and honestly. Help your child to recognize and name their feelings (such as anger, sadness, frustration, happiness), so they can learn to manage them effectively. Encourage them to talk about their emotions and ask questions to help them understand their feelings better.

Provide positive feedback: Positive feedback is crucial to a child’s emotional development. It helps to build their self-esteem and confidence. Provide your child with positive feedback regularly, such as praising them for their efforts or accomplishments and make sure they feel valued and loved. Rather than praising them generally, praise them for something they did right.

Do not focus on the negative: Do not harp on the negative as it may reinforce that negative activity. In case of behaviour or action you disapprove, tell them once about what they did wrong and focus on changing it in a positive way. Do not call a child ‘bad’ or ‘naughty’ as they may start seeing themselves in that way. You can call an action as bad but not the child.

Help your child develop empathy: Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. Helping your child develop empathy is an essential part of their emotional development. Encourage them to put themselves in other people’s shoes and think about how they would feel in different situations. Teach them to be kind and considerate towards others. Be aware that empathy develops slowly. Your child may start showing empathy from age 3 but it doesn’t fully develop until children are 8 to 10 years old or even older.  Help your child understand other’s feelings and being kind towards them but don’t get frustrated if they don’t show empathy right away as it is a slow process.

Be a good role model: Parents are the most influential role models for their children. Your children are likely to model their behavior based on what they see you do. As a parent, it’s essential to model positive behavior and emotional regulation. Show your children how to manage their emotions effectively and respond to different situations appropriately.

Provide opportunities for social interaction :Social interaction is crucial for your child’s emotional development. It helps them learn to communicate, share and develop friendships. Provide opportunities for your child to interact with other children their age, such as play-dates or attending a preschool or daycare.

Teach your child to problem-solve: Problem-solving is an important part of emotional development. It helps children learn to manage their emotions and deal with challenging situations effectively. Teach your child problem-solving skills by encouraging them to think critically and come up with solutions to different problems they encounter.

In conclusion, parents play a crucial role in supporting the emotional development of their 3-year-olds. Creating a safe and secure environment, encouraging the expression of emotions, providing positive feedback, helping your child develop empathy, being a good role model, providing opportunities for social interaction and teaching your child to problem-solve are all essential steps in supporting your child’s emotional development.

By supporting your child’s emotional development, you are laying the foundation for their future success in life. It’s essential to remember that emotional development is a process and every child develops at their own pace. Be patient, supportive and consistent in your approach and your child will thrive emotionally.

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